Monday, December 21, 2009
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
School
Kids, Mommy misses you SO MUCH!
Friday, July 31, 2009
"We All Have the Same Facts . . .
Hannah, Bryce, Joseph, and Rocky 
Saturday, July 25, 2009
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
The Sun Shines Bright . . .
Cumberland Falls, July 2009The kids and I scooted down to Corbin Kentucky on Friday afternoon directly following Hannah's last day of basketball camp. We 'jammed' to one Beatles album after another (I know they are CD's now, but they'll always be 'albums' to me) with the kids playing DJ and part-time navigators. We had fun and sang songs most of the way down. We opted to pass through Cincy, rather than to travel through Louisville. My uncle, Bill, suggested that it would be much easier and it was a very enjoyable way to travel. We went through, rather than around, the city and I had not been in downtown Cincinnati since I was a girl, so it was neat to see the large buildings and historic parts. Because it was well before rush hour, we had no trouble whatsoever passing through in a timely way, either. We arrived in Corbin around 6-ish which allowed us time to unpack and head off to the Williamsburg Donkey Races. :0)
I just have to say that it was quite funny watching those donkeys throwing people right and left all over the track! (ha) I am sure that belies a real lack of character of some sort on my part, but I don't care - IT WAS HILARIOUS! I won't bore you with every detail but I wanted to share a couple of things. Firstly, there were heats to eliminate contestants to the best of the best, and yes, even the worst of the worst. I didn't see the pathetic little bobble-head trophy for the worst donkey rider, but I agreed entirely with the poor kid who won the prize for worst ride. Let's suffice it say, he's probably still very bruised and battered even today! (ha) What still amazes me is that there are so many people willing to humiliate themselves and pay such a price (for I guarantee everyone leaves this thing with some sort of battle scar) that they have to have heats. People there are tough!
The donkeys are not all created equal. Some have a real attitude! I don't know what this one donkey's real name was, but he will forever be dubbed "Diabolo" in my mind - NOBODY could ride him. I would watch each little heat and shake my head when some poor schmuck would choose HIM for their ride of choice - poor fools!!! He would throw them so fast they didn't even know what day of the week it was, then he would step out of the way every time someone attempted to jump back on, leaving the leaper to a muddy fate, face down in the dirt. Or, when someone did manage to get atop of him, he would run really hard and then come to a full stop in order to throw his 'rider' (a term I use loosely, for 'victim' would be far more apt) right over the top of his head, so that the ridee would be catapulted onto the dirt, again, face first. He was a viscious one, that donkey!
Anyway, the final race was by far the best. One guy was actually doing very well riding the ol' donkeys and in the last race for the championship had his ride all the way around the track and was well ahead of the pack. However, that's when the donkey decided to have the last laugh. Trotting as fast as he could towards the finish line, the crowds cheering them on and the rider thinking he SOOOO had this race in the bag, the donkey locked his front knees 2 feet from the finish line and threw his almost-champion head first across the finish line! Too bad the only way you can win is if both you AND your donkey cross the finish line. (Ha) Oh, man! I about fell off the bleachers laughing! Anyway, the guy I had picked, #3, ended up slowly trotting on by and won the race and championship for this year. Who'd have thought donkey racing could be so entertaining?
The attitudes and behavior of the people of Kentucky are actually very refreshing. People take their time to do things, and each person who waited on us in stores (big or small, privately owned or in national chains) was patient, friendly, helpful, and kind. I guess I didn't realize what a big rush we are all in here until I experienced how much more patient the people we met are. I have to say that I find that pace and approach to life much preferable. Friendliness goes a long way! There were a lot of smokers, though and the kids were in shock! They aren't used to seeing people - all kinds of people - smoking. Once I explained that this is tobacco growing country however, they took it in stride.
After the donkey races, Bill took us to a little carnival and the kids had a ball riding the rides. Joseph was very reluctant at first to ride one that went up fairly high into the air, and since he's had a fear of heights all his life, I doubted he would get on. But, Uncle Bill did manage to coax him on and once he got a few times around on that thing, he was an 'old pro' and totally into it. I think the kids rode that same ride 4 or 5 times!! (ha) While there, we ate some yummy, very spicy french fries. I still don't know what they made them with, but they were great - very spicy! Bill bought the kids lighted necklaces which were very cool. They blinked with multiple colors and patterns. At night, there are something to see. It's remarkable how much fun you can have with a $2 lighted necklace! However, I wouldn't suggest heading into a port-o-potty with one as a sole source of light. Let's just say that I nearly had an epileptic seizure in there before I could finish doing my business! (Ha Ha)
What was in those french fries, anyway? :o)
On the way home we grabbed some 'real food' and had a nice dinner with Otella before heading to bed. Of course, we had to regale her with stories of donkeys, dirt, and daring rides on daunting carnival delights.
We started off the day on Saturday heading into downtown Corbin for a block party being sponsored by a local telecommunications company. There was live music, mural painting for the children, and free food! The thing with the mural was sort of funny to me. Some of the adults were joining in but were taking it all very seriously, carefully keeping their paint in the lines. What made it humorous to me was the fact that not 2 feet away on the same mural, 2-year-olds were slopping paint everywhere, using the wrong colors for everything, and making the mural look more like it had been covered in mud than paint! The adults didn't seem to mind too much, so long as nobody messed up their section. Adults are really nothing but kids in bigger bodies I think.
The live music wasn't exceptional, but I loved one guy who played the mandolin and sang. The others were obviously trying to be somewhat professional and taking turns singing songs. There must have been 4 or 5 guitarists. But this last guy sat on the stage, barefoot, with an old baseball cap on it and sang with a deep Kentucky accent. That is in no way a case of denigrating him. His voice was wonderful, and he did the best song by far. Love John Prine!! Anyway, I really enjoy live music so that was treat!
We popped into a music store there and enjoyed looking at the very pretty guitars. Hannah salivated over several she wouldn't mind having! (Ha) We like to never got out of there, the owners were super sweet and very chatty!
After that, we headed to Cumberland falls (see picture above) and were impressed with its beauty and power. Initially, we attempted to walk along the water down to the falls but a kind woman informed us that they had just spotted a water moccasin. Therefore, we implemented Plan B - walking back on the path! We walked through a small portion of the grounds/park that surrounds the falls and then hopped into the car to see the mountains and forests from numerous other perspectives. We stopped back at a rather well-known lodge and the view from the patio is breaktaking, frankly.

I have a number of pictures, but I really like this one. Bill, who is a very good photographer, took some fantastic pictures - much better than this one!
When we returned to the house, Bill fired up the grill and we had very delicious hamburgers (Angus Beef!) and then a large bonfire. We listened to music to firelight and tiki torches, and played along with guitars and a keyboard. It was awesome! We had a nice bonfire the next night, too, and I think Bill and I finally made our way back into the house sometime after midnight. It's hard to go in when you're enjoying such a beautiful night with the chorus of bugs and frogs and Van the Man playing. Ah, this is summer at its best!
Sunday afternoon we headed out on a pontoon Bill had rented and the kids had a ball driving it all over the lake, inlets, coves and so on. Laurel Lakes is expansive and breathtakingly beautiful. We stopped at a small, secluded beach area and ate lunch. This was no ordinary little lunch, however. Did you know that Corbin is the birthplace of THE Colonel Sanders' Kentucky Fried Chicken? Well, neither did I! But, apparently, it is and we bought food for our big day on the lake in the KFC museum/restaurant. It was something to see. Great care has been taken to reproduce elements of the original kitchen and dining area. I don't know. Maybe it was just in my head, but eating that chicken Sunday afternoon from that particular place just tasted a little better than usual.
Anyway, after lunch the kids swam a bit. We headed further down into the lake system and found a swimming spot. It was chilly but the kids and I swam for a good while as Bill and Otella sat in lawn chairs and enjoyed the view - very relaxing! We came home and ate a sandwich and had our second night around the fire.
Monday was our last full day and we made the most of it. Bill and I ran to Wal-mart to get our photos developed. It took forever but the pictures are such a treasure! We decided to head back to the same swimming spot we had visited the day before. However, the temperature was nearly 10 degrees warmer so the swimming was not just nice, it was ideal! We spent much of the day in the lake.
Bill and Otella got in there with the kids and were so great all week, playing with and including the children in everything. They are terrific people and outstanding hosts. Thanks to them for their hospitality and generosity to us. We will never forget it!
Anyway, after swimming all afternoon we came home and cleaned up so we could head out to China King, or King China - I cannot remember. It is a Chinese buffet and has to be the best one this lady has ever been to, personally. There was an abundance of delicious seafood dishes, in addition to the regular Chinese buffet fare - and even delicacies like fried frog legs! It was just tremendously good!
When we returned home, we stopped at the new arena cut into a huge mountain in Corbin, and from it you can see for miles. Really cool! Upon returning home, Bill fired up the Goldwing and took me on a 30-mile night ride. If it had been up to me, we'd have kept riding all night! But, the kids wanted a ride, too! :o) So, he cruised on home and took each of them for a nice, long ride, too. Otella and I went through pictures and just had the best talk!
Did I mention how great my family is? :)
Tuesday we packed up and headed back for home, but not before Bill made us walnut pancakes. We sure ate well during our stay! (ha) After a tearful goodbye (for I truly hated leaving knowing it could be months or even longer before I would see this lovely couple again) we got into the car and headed for home. Leaving again about mid-day seemed to afford us ideal driving conditions and we made it home in good and timely fashion.
We greatly appreciated the gracious hospitality of my aunt and uncle and enough could never be said of the true beauty of the state of Kentucky! Maybe, if I'm really lucky, I'll get to live there someday.
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Summertime, and the livin' is easy. . .
Thus far, in addition to numerous visits with family, the kids and/or I have done the following:
- Two week fitness bootcamp - Me - still haven't fully recovered (whimper, moan)
- Weekly trips to the Library - All
- Band Camp - Hannah - 1 week - (Mercifully, the child opted to play sax rather than the oboe... whew! That was a close one!)
- Basketball Camp - Joseph - 1 week
- Twin Lakes Christian Camp - Hannah and Joseph - 1 week
- Royal Family Kids' Camp - Me - 1 week
- Basketball camp - Hannah - (in progress, 1 week)
- Went to see two movies Star Trek (was awesome... I'm just saying) and Monsters vs. Aliens (did anyone else burst out in laughter when the presidential character went up to the alien, and pounded out the little musical theme from Close Encounters of the 3rd Kind, and then lifted his hand up in the classic Vulcan, "Live long, and prosper" greeting?) TOTALLY HILARIOUS!
- Devotions - Working our way through the book of Joshua (very good study with the kids)
- School Work - Kids are daily working through their Summer Bridge Workbooks to keep them fresh and ontrack for school in August
- Ministry responsibilites (okay, this is mainly me, but still!)
- Hueston Woods - We had a wonderful day of hiking last week in the beautiful Buckeye State!
It's enough to make a person long for summer to end! Anyway, I do not share that for any other reason than to lead me to say the following: If you're not hearing from me, THIS IS WHY!!! And, truly, this list doesn't cover it all. We're headed to Kentucky this week to visit my wonderful Uncle Bill and Aunt Otella. Should be a good time! Once things settle down here (they will do that eventually, right?) I will resume posting pictures and blogging. However, with the sun shining and the kids home, it just seems a far better use of my time to expend my energies with my sweet children.
To all whom may read this: Hope your summer is as wonderful as ours has been!
Dawn
Get Your Motor Runnin'
In my family, riding motorcyles is practically a genetic mandate, and the kids are off to a good 'Armstrong' start taking a little cruise last weekend with Grandpa on the Harley. SWEET!!!!
How can you recognize a happy cyclist? He has bugs in his teeth, of course. :o)
Saturday, May 9, 2009
I Think I'm Turnin' Japanese, I Really Think So!


Tuesday, May 5, 2009
A Day to Remember and to Rejoice
Monday, March 9, 2009
Mom Through Children's Eyes

The kids were asked these series of questions about their mother. Their responses are differentiated below by the first letter of their first name.
Do you think your kids know you? (Ha) This is a humbling little exercise, but a lot of fun and good for a few laughs.
"Some say the world will end in fire, some say with ice."
Recently, a friend of mine invited the kids and I to attend an ice-skating/birthday party she was hosting for her eldest child to be held at Ellenberger Park here in Indianapolis (head east on St. Clair street from Emerson Avenue if you want to check it out for yourself). Now, since I have managed to maintain a perfect record of never having broken a solitary bone in my body to date - and because I wanted to keep it that way - I refrained from donning a pair of ice skates myself and venturing out onto the rink of death, er . . .um, I mean, the ice. But, my children were undeterred by my recurring insistence that 'somebody's going to break an arm tonight,' and struggled on a pair of skates.
As only my son could have done, he managed to show up to the rink with one ankle sock on under his shoes, and entirely sockless on the other foot. (Grrr!) So, I had to take off my nice, warm, long socks and hand them over so he could skate. (Joseph - thanks ever so much! I love February at the ice rink minus socks. I owe you one, buddy! ha ha!)
They clopped along the big rubber mats and shakily navigated their way onto the ice. Both were afraid and I wasn't sure they were going to attempt it, but eventually, gloved-clad hands pressed against the plexiglass walls, both eased their way around the rink. As the night wore on, they both made their way out onto the ice and didn't do too bad skating. The videos are snippets of their first experience on the ice. Enjoy!
Sunday, February 22, 2009
Champions!
Friday, February 20, 2009
Evangelism Explosion Banquet
The thing I wanted to write about, though is that in my attempts to encourage the brethren to take advantage of this tremendous opportunity to get better equipped to share the gospel, I ended up being pretty encouraged myself. Thinking back through all the lives that have been touched through this tremendous discipling, gospel-training ministry has rekindled a passion within me to seek to 'get back in the saddle' and get to work somehow in E.E.. "Oh, Lord - use me once more, I pray!"
I praise the LORD for the people He has allowed me to meet and to work with and to come to know through the Evangelism Explosion ministry.
Seeing the people, He felt compassion for them, because they were
distressed and dispirited like sheep without a shepherd.
Then He
said to His disciples,
"The harvest is plentiful,
but the workers are few.
Therefore beseech the Lord of the harvest to send
out workers into His harvest."
O'Friel's a Franklin Central Lady Flash!

Looking serious as a heart-attack, little Miss Hannah is caught posing for a picture before a big, semi-finals game against the only team that beat the Flashes this season - Roncalli! The Flashes played solid defense and played well for the first game of the tourney, advancing to the semi-finals. Facing Roncalli, a team that mirrors the flashes in many way, made everyone a bit nervous!
The game was nip and tuck all the way and ended up going into overtime. Honestly, I do not know who endures more stress - the players or their parents - at times like these. (ha) But, we all survived and the Lady Flashes managed to come out on top. It was a big win, and the girls are all looking forward to playing in the championship game Sunday afternoon.
For Hannah, this experience has been a tremendous opportunity. The coach has been extremely patient and instructive with her. Unlike all the others, this is Hannah's first year playing the game. But everyone has been great about it and she has grown so much in every way. We are proud of the progress she's made and the mental toughness she is developing.
All I have to say now is . . . GO FLASHES!!!!! :)
My Baby Isn't a Baby, Anymore

Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Walking in a Winter Wonderland
Monday, January 26, 2009
How Can We Tell How Big We Are?
When he and I were driving home from school, I asked him about his day and he said it was good, but that he was really excited about tonight. Feigning not to have any idea what he was referring to I innocently asked him, 'Oh, really? Why is that?' Sometimes I can be such a stinker! :) He wasn't fooled for a minute, though. He just said, "You know," with a big smirk on his face. And, of course, I knew full-well what he was alluding to and why he was excited. During our morning quiet time before school, the kids and I had been reading through the Parable of the Sower (which I always think should be called the Parable of the Soils!), and Joseph really perked up because he recognized - especially in light of what today is for him - that the soil of his little heart was 'good,' that is, it was open to the gospel. These morning devotions are often the highlight of the day for us and this one was especially meaningful.
All of that to say this: On the way home from dropping Hannah off to basketball practice, Joseph asked a great and what I felt was a profound question. In essence he said, "You know how we grow taller and bigger and smarter as we have a regular birthday every year?" (I resisted the temptation to make a smart remark and just nodded and agreed, letting him come to his point) He went on, "Well, how will I know if I am growing bigger and stronger, spiritually? Will it show up on my body somewhere?"
Moments like this make me so glad I'm a parent. I never would have thought to wonder about something like that had he not raised it. This is not to say that I never ponder (and truly wonder) about spiritual growth and if I am experiencing any of it. Of course I think of it quite a lot. But, his question about needing/wanting to see some sort of evidence was pretty cool, I thought.
We talked for a bit and worked together through some thoughts, finally settling upon looking to Christ as the 'benchmark' and Christian character - Christlikeness - as the way we could rightly evaluate our spiritual growth. It was an excellent discussion, and frankly, somewhat convicting. It seems to me that I have a lot of 'growing up to do.' Maybe we all do.
Oh, to be like Him! As we celebrate our Savior's great mercy to me and my family, how I pray that you are being ever more transformed into the image of God's Son, from glory to glory.
Monday, January 19, 2009
First Time Out
I am hoping to keep those who might be interested on what's happening here in "O'Friel Universe" (you know who you are!). Will have to keep it short for now though. The kids have to say their prayers and hop into bed for the night!

































